In the first, the Borderline has painted you black and simply walked away from you. You shared a love and closeness with this person that was unlike any you’ve experienced before. They NEVER felt like you did and it was never real for them.It doesn’t seem like it at all right now perhaps, but if your Borderline ex has discarded you, they have done you a favor.
After all, you’re not used to flirting or risking rejection anymore. It may take some practice, but getting ready to date again can be a rewarding process.
It’s not easy to completely disappear on someone forever.
It’s horribly difficult to silently walk away from someone you love and care for. No contact means to cut all contact with a person, to remove every trace of them from your life via zero communication. You need everything you used to like about yourself back.
Sign 2: You Are Not Desperate To Find The Right One – Tonight! This leaves you vulnerable to people that sense that need and take advantage of it.
Sign 3: You Are Able To Look Back On The Last Relationship Honestly The breakup of most couples is not one sided.